How Long Do You Have to Wait After Having a Baby to Have Intercourse

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by lyriclekidd(m): vii:26pm On May 23, 2015

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by KingTom(g): seven:26pm On May 23, 2015
nellyme:
A friend of mine but put to bed a billowy baby boy. I went visiting and we got to discuss a lot of things. She told me a lot of things...(I'm keeping ma mouth shut)....what got me concerned was that she said she had intercourse with the husband cos he insisted. At commencement I was daze just I feigned ignorant of that...when I left her I got to practise a lot of research and decided to share it here cos I retrieve der might exist people in similar situation.
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Here are some questions I considered:
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Is a mother able to take intercourse with her married man while she is even so nursing her baby?
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What effect does the mother's milk accept on the child if she has intercourse while she is breast feeding?
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How long should she wait after birth before she tin can have relations with her married man?
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***i also heard somewhere that a woman doesn't cartel give milk to her child once she has begun to take sexual relations. If she does it, the child will become sick and fifty-fifty die***
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The reply I was able to deduct from my enquiry was : "Aye, a mother is able to have intercourse with her husband while she notwithstanding nurses her infant, providing they expect for a few weeks after birth until her organs are dorsum to normal."
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REASONS:
1. It takes from 4 to 6 weeks afterward nascence for a woman's uterus to return to its normal state. At that place is a scarlet discharge from the uterus after the baby is born which is chosen the lochia. It lasts about two weeks and tends to flow most when the mother is nursing her baby. Later the lochia becomes a lighter colour and then it finally stops.
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2. The father'south sperm cannot enter into the milk and cause the babe to become sick.
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MY Advice:
The best way a begetter should show his love to his kid is to love the babe'southward female parent. Mothers Please don't abstain from sex totally during chest feeding because information technology pushes the impatient husbands to adultery and fathers do not rush your wives, requite them fourth dimension to heal.
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Closing REMARK:
It is fifty-fifty true that mothers who breast-feed their babies are more than interested in returning to agile intercourse with their husbands every bit soon as possible after nativity. They want to limited the love and gratitude which they take in their hearts for the father of their child.
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Thank you!!!
I rest my case
But what do you think

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by Beremx(f): 7:27pm On May 23, 2015

At that place's nothing wrong with a nursing female parent having sexual activity. Well information technology depends if the nursing mother had a CS or normal delivery. For those who had CS,its kinda scary when having intercourse but with fourth dimension,the nursing mother gets used to it.

Fond.ling and sucking of the brreasts is a No for me during sexual practice. angry

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse past Nobody: vii:27pm On May 23, 2015

No side effect at all...the only affair is she get piece of work tire when kids brainstorm abound. Meanwhile she no employ whatever FAM planning available then she can Satisfy hubby and at the aforementioned time avoid been significant when she is nursing. ..

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by qualityovenbake(grand): 7:27pm On May 23, 2015

There is nix incorrect in having sex activity with a nursing mother, then far she is your wife oh. Y'all can offset having sex with her i calendar month subsequently delivery. Note her body is still fragile equally at and then, and then she has to consent to information technology..

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by lepasharon(f): 7:29pm On May 23, 2015

''It pushes the impatient husbands to infidelity''....then if men don't have sex they volition die huh? Kmt!

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse past KegMaZi: vii:31pm On May 23, 2015
nickibarb:
in my own example, i'one thousand 100% ready to get dorsum into full sex mode with the bae, just for some reason, it seems like his libido has dropped drastically since i dropped babe number ii. i know its not my appearance cos i look bully, heard it from women and men. even my married man'south friends have said how shocked they are that i've had 2 kids, and i've seen my married man secretly enjoying the compliment. flat tummy, back to size two. so what could exist the problem? in that location'south no fright of pregnancy cos i'yard on a longterm contraceptive. has anyone else experienced this? new baby is 4 months onetime, nosotros've had sex 4 times since baby was built-in. two of these 4 times was initiated by me. prior to the 1st babe, boo was ready to have sex twice a twenty-four hour period, and i was prepare for him each time. after the 1st babe, information technology reduced to like 4x a week and i figured we can blame it on the presence of the new baby. later on this 2nd infant, its seems like he'south simply non Hot anymore. i know he'due south not cheating and my vajayjay is pretty much the same. ii c/sections

Try talking to him in a non-sexual,non-confrontational setting. Hopefully he would relax and let you know what is bothering him.

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by sigidporte(m): 7:35pm On May 23, 2015
nellyme:

Just be serious and discuss the topic on board. Make ur input and finish chit chats

Promise y'all don dey put centre for senior jokes wo..

and like play play, y'all don grab FP.

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by Ekenedirichukwu(k): seven:36pm On May 23, 2015

Igwe must hear this!

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by KegMaZi: vii:37pm On May 23, 2015

Sex does not touch on the babe. As a married adult female,she has to keep both her husband and babies happy. Once the doc gives a get alee,they are free to become back to "work". She was first his wife(so she should try to relax and become into the mood before he approaches her)earlier she became a female parent. I advice she gets some lubricant, Durex makes some dainty ones. Because the nursing causes some dryness. She can still get pregnant o,so she sould polish her eye n go on a contraceptive. Other than that, everything should exist OK.

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by nellyme(f): seven:38pm On May 23, 2015
sigidporte:

Promise you don put eye for senior jokes wo..

Lolzzzz....u don join ni...make ya own input jhoor

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by okiuso(m): vii:39pm On May 23, 2015

there is nothing incorrect with that. As long equally the woman is hygienically sound and dry out.

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse past medar(yard): 7:40pm On May 23, 2015

From what I've noticed, information technology'southward not healthy for the nursing mother to be sleeping with other men except the father of her child during the breastfeeding period.

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by Royalty01: 7:42pm On May 23, 2015

Subject field and restraint are essential ingredients in successful living. If I am completely abstaining from sex till matrimony, why can't I wait for as long equally information technology takes my wife to bounce back to her normal self before firing from all cylinders again. The fear of pushing the man to infidelity shouldn't arise if he fears and reverence God. This ought non to be an issue. Mind the kind of man yous ally.

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by wilhazcar: seven:43pm On May 23, 2015
nickibarb:
in my own case, i'm 100% prepare to become dorsum into full sex mode with the bae, but for some reason, it seems like his libido has dropped drastically since i dropped infant number 2. i know its not my advent cos i look great, heard it from women and men. fifty-fifty my hubby's friends have said how shocked they are that i've had 2 kids, and i've seen my husband secretly enjoying the compliment. flat tummy, back to size two. so what could be the problem? there'southward no fearfulness of pregnancy cos i'grand on a longterm contraceptive. has anyone else experienced this? new baby is 4 months one-time, nosotros've had sexual activity iv times since babe was born. two of these 4 times was initiated past me. prior to the 1st baby, boo was prepare to accept sex twice a mean solar day, and i was ready for him each time. after the 1st baby, it reduced to like 4x a week and i figured we can blame information technology on the presence of the new babe. later this 2nd baby, its seems like he's just non Hot anymore. i know he'due south not cheating and my vajayjay is pretty much the aforementioned. 2 c/sections

Considering you lot had ii c/sections, there are 2 possibilities that come to mind: 1) Husband looks at the abdominal cutting/stitches and fears that it may exist risky engaging in intensive activity with you lot, in order to avoid a tear. 2). The abdominal cut/stitch may be a turn-off. Have a middle-to-heart give-and-take with him. All the all-time.

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by byrron(m): vii:46pm On May 23, 2015
nellyme:
A friend of mine just put to bed a bouncing babe boy. I went visiting and we got to talk over a lot of things. She told me a lot of things...(I'thou keeping ma oral fissure shut)....what got me concerned was that she said she had intercourse with the hubby cos he insisted. At commencement I was shock merely I feigned ignorant of that...when I left her I got to practice a lot of research and decided to share it here cos I think der might be people in similar state of affairs.
**
Here are some questions I considered:
**
Is a female parent able to have intercourse with her hubby while she is still nursing her baby?
**
What effect does the mother's milk accept on the child if she has intercourse while she is breast feeding?
**
How long should she wait after birth before she can take relations with her married man?
**
***i as well heard somewhere that a woman doesn't dare give milk to her child once she has begun to have sexual relations. If she does it, the child will become sick and even die***
**
The answer I was able to deduct from my research was : "Yes, a mother is able to have intercourse with her husband while she nonetheless nurses her baby, providing they expect for a few weeks after birth until her organs are dorsum to normal."
**
REASONS:
1. It takes from 4 to 6 weeks after nascency for a woman'south uterus to return to its normal state. There is a ruby discharge from the uterus after the baby is born which is called the lochia. It lasts about 2 weeks and tends to menstruum nigh when the female parent is nursing her baby. Later the lochia becomes a lighter colour and then it finally stops.
**
2. The male parent'south sperm cannot enter into the milk and cause the baby to go sick.
**
MY ADVICE:
The best fashion a father should evidence his love to his kid is to beloved the baby's mother. Mothers Please don't abjure from sexual activity totally during breast feeding considering it pushes the impatient husbands to adultery and fathers do non rush your wives, requite them fourth dimension to heal.
***
Closing REMARK:
It is even truthful that mothers who breast-feed their babies are more than interested in returning to active intercourse with their husbands as soon as possible after birth. They want to limited the love and gratitude which they accept in their hearts for the begetter of their kid.
*
Cheers!!!
I remainder my case
Merely what do you think

All you wrote up there = 100% correct.

When is it prophylactic to have sexual practice afterward giving birth?

Yous should look until whatever haemorrhage afterward the birth (lochia) has stopped, which should be by about three weeks after your infant's birth. This is because the wound left in your uterus (womb) by the placenta coming out is all the same healing. If you accept sexual activity earlier the bleeding has stopped, you may get an infection.

When volition I feel like having sex subsequently the nascence?

Everyone is dissimilar. There's no norm, or fix time, when yous should aim to take sexual practice by. The virtually of import thing is to await until you are physically and emotionally ready.

A small number of couples start having sexual activity within the first calendar month afterward the birth, simply nigh half look until at to the lowest degree 6 weeks, equally exercise most women who have had a tear or episiotomy. Past three months, most couples take tried sex again, though some couples prefer to look until subsequently six months.

If you lot both feel set to accept sexual activity before your postnatal bank check at most six weeks later the nascence, yous can go ahead if you desire to. Some health professionals suggest trying sexual practice with your partner earlier your postnatal bank check, if you both feel ready, then they can address whatsoever problems at your appointment.

Yous'll demand to consider contraception when you do get-go to have sex once more. Even if you are nevertheless breastfeeding and your periods haven't returned, y'all may still get meaning once again.

If you lot're not however fix to have sexual practice, continue with kissing and touching and being physically close to each other. Attempt to do this, fifty-fifty if it seems a lot of try when you're tired and preoccupied with your new baby. Returning to sex will then feel less daunting and more similar a natural progression.

http://www.babycentre.co.united kingdom/a536362/sex-afterwards-the-birth

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse past Nten: 7:49pm On May 23, 2015

No time. Agile Continuous and spontaneous slamming brash

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by labbyboi(m): seven:50pm On May 23, 2015
nellyme:
A friend of mine only put to bed a billowy baby boy. I went visiting and we got to hash out a lot of things. She told me a lot of things...(I'thousand keeping ma oral fissure shut)....what got me concerned was that she said she had intercourse with the husband cos he insisted. At beginning I was shock but I feigned ignorant of that...when I left her I got to practice a lot of research and decided to share information technology here cos I think der might be people in like state of affairs.
**
Here are some questions I considered:
**
Is a mother able to accept intercourse with her husband while she is withal nursing her infant?
**
What effect does the mother's milk have on the kid if she has intercourse while she is breast feeding?
**
How long should she wait subsequently nascency earlier she can have relations with her husband?
**
***i also heard somewhere that a adult female doesn't dare give milk to her kid once she has begun to have sexual relations. If she does information technology, the child will get sick and even dice***
**
The answer I was able to deduct from my enquiry was : "Yeah, a mother is able to accept intercourse with her husband while she still nurses her babe, providing they expect for a few weeks subsequently birth until her organs are back to normal."
**
REASONS:
1. It takes from 4 to half dozen weeks after birth for a woman'due south uterus to return to its normal state. In that location is a red discharge from the uterus after the infant is born which is chosen the lochia. It lasts virtually two weeks and tends to flow well-nigh when the mother is nursing her baby. Later the lochia becomes a lighter colour and then it finally stops.
**
2. The male parent's sperm cannot enter into the milk and cause the baby to get sick.
**
MY Communication:
The best way a father should show his love to his child is to love the baby's mother. Mothers Delight don't abstain from sex totally during breast feeding because it pushes the impatient husbands to adultery and fathers practice not rush your wives, give them fourth dimension to heal.
***
CLOSING REMARK:
It is fifty-fifty true that mothers who breast-feed their babies are more interested in returning to active intercourse with their husbands as soon equally possible subsequently nascence. They want to express the love and gratitude which they take in their hearts for the male parent of their kid.
*
Cheers!!!
I rest my case
But what do you think

Are you educating us or yous want to learn? undecided

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse past missKiffy(f): 7:52pm On May 23, 2015

1 this I know is, it's non good to accept in sperm while breastfeeding, it volition affect the baby, rubber is advised for married couples while the woman is breastfeeding

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by ololo12: 7:53pm On May 23, 2015

What is the meaning of Bae??

nickibarb:
in my own case, i'm 100% ready to become back into total sexual activity mode with the bae, but for some reason, it seems like his libido has dropped drastically since i dropped baby number ii. i know its not my appearance cos i look slap-up, heard information technology from women and men. fifty-fifty my husband's friends accept said how shocked they are that i've had 2 kids, and i've seen my hubby secretly enjoying the compliment. flat tummy, back to size two. so what could be the problem? there's no fear of pregnancy cos i'grand on a longterm contraceptive. has anyone else experienced this? new baby is four months old, we've had sex 4 times since baby was born. two of these 4 times was initiated by me. prior to the 1st baby, boo was ready to have sexual practice twice a 24-hour interval, and i was ready for him each time. after the 1st babe, it reduced to like 4x a calendar week and i figured we can arraign information technology on the presence of the new babe. after this 2d baby, its seems like he'south just not Hot anymore. i know he's not adulterous and my vajayjay is pretty much the same. 2 c/sections

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by Nobody: vii:58pm On May 23, 2015

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by booty: 8:01pm On May 23, 2015
Beremx:
There's cypher incorrect with a nursing female parent having sex. Well information technology depends if the nursing mother had a CS or normal commitment. For those who had CS,its kinda scary when having intercourse but with fourth dimension,the nursing female parent gets used to information technology.

Fond.ling and sucking of the brreasts is a No for me during sex. angry

Promise you lot not tiresome in bed? Because that your concluding sentence dey be like something for my eye.

Na ashawo I know say no dey permit make you suck north handle brea5t .

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Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse past 9jatatafo(m): eight:03pm On May 23, 2015
Chiefpriest1:

4 times in four months is quite depression. I figure he'due south giving you fourth dimension to face the kids.

Glad you trust him enough to know he's not cheating on you.

We might deceive ourselves to sound very loving sometimes,but fact is that once the babies start coming, there'due south always a lull in sexual activities between couples.

If you drive, have you noticed that the excitement yous had when you just bought the motorcar has waned over the years? It'due south the nature of man.

Dont sweat it every bit far every bit its not a big problem. You can jokingly tell him,but dont bug him to the extent of making him feel less of a homo.

She said 4x a calendar week and not 4x a calendar month. Breaking the above down, it means they blip four times in a week which translates to xvi shots a month. Know that married couple with kids cannot keep bleeping like when information technology was just the human being and adult female alone. A lot of responsibilities for the kids and care together with life stress will affect se.10 life.

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by sigidporte(m): 8:05pm On May 23, 2015
nellyme:

Lolzzzz....u don join ni...make ya ain input jhoor

Promise, i bet the resulting output of my input wont be so nice, so im keeping my input to myself.

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by Nobody: viii:05pm On May 23, 2015
nickibarb:
in my own case, i'g 100% set to get dorsum into full sex mode with the bae, but for some reason, it seems similar his libido has dropped drastically since i dropped infant number 2. i know its not my appearance cos i look great, heard it from women and men. even my married man's friends have said how shocked they are that i've had 2 kids, and i've seen my hubby secretly enjoying the compliment. flat tummy, back to size 2. so what could be the problem? there'south no fear of pregnancy cos i'm on a longterm contraceptive. has anyone else experienced this? new baby is 4 months old, we've had sexual practice 4 times since babe was born. two of these 4 times was initiated by me. prior to the 1st baby, boo was ready to accept sex twice a day, and i was fix for him each time. subsequently the 1st infant, it reduced to like 4x a week and i figured we can blame it on the presence of the new baby. after this 2nd baby, its seems like he's just not Hot anymore. i know he's not cheating and my vajayjay is pretty much the same. 2 c/sections

yea I empathise, try to b hotter, apparel hot, u re a pretty lady and u gat a good body, sometimes we jst deceive ourself with d give-and-take 'trust'

Men needs flashy tins, attempt to b flashy, hope u re nt giving ur baby more attention than your husband? @Op its okay d lady can accept sex, bt I prefer 5-7weeks after delivery

4get all those believe, all na prevarication,,

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by Nobody: 8:10pm On May 23, 2015
lepasharon:
''It pushes the impatient husbands to infidelity''....and then if men don't have sex they will dice huh? Kmt!

No we won't, Bt lemme tell u d truth, men luv Sex, then u depriving ur hubby of DAT is bad, Cous and then many ladies out deer re ready to satisfy him, and u stand d chance of lossing

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by LuvSwollenPussy(m): eight:11pm On May 23, 2015
nellyme:
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U been wan write some other matter once more?
Ok make I help you.

The breastmilk belongs to both the father and d babe.. grin

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by Phinagold(f): viii:18pm On May 23, 2015
coogaluta:

you heard this?
or you made it upwards to lengthen your opening post?

I have not just heard. I know a couple practising that also

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse by oseiwe(m): eight:18pm On May 23, 2015
nellyme:
Still waiting for mature inputs...

u get visit nursing mother and na kpanshing things una dey hash out, naija ladies! una get don depict and compare levels tire.

Re: Nursing Mothers And Intercourse past Nobody: eight:18pm On May 23, 2015
Beremx:
There's nada incorrect with a nursing female parent having sex. Well it depends if the nursing mother had a CS or normal delivery. For those who had CS,its kinda scary when having intercourse but with fourth dimension,the nursing mother gets used to it.

Addicted.ling and sucking of the brreasts is a No for me during sex. angry

as if say na y'all become your body. Your married man has the right to handle, suck, clasp any office of your trunk cos he owns it.

Inugo

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